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Simply Weddings post for the week of August 16, 2010

Sunday, August 15th, 2010
Wedding Party Duties
Your wedding party plays an important role throughout the wedding planning process and on your wedding day. Your wedding party is typically composed of a few family members and close friends — people you can rely on to ensure your wedding will be a great success. Here are some tips from Simply Weddings by Brit Bertino that can help guide you and  your bridal party to honoring their roles as a part of your special day.

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The following is a list of the most important duties each wedding party member is responsible for. In addition, there is a list outlining the financial responsibilities for each wedding party member. Please note, these lists are only basic guidelines. You can change or adapt these responsibilities to meet your individual needs and goals for the wedding you wish to have.


Maid or Matron of Honor

When a bride asks you to be the Maid or Matron of Honor it is a very special honor. The maid or matron of honor is a person who the bride trusts and feels she can rely on to ensure that everything on her wedding day goes as planned. The maid or matron of honor carries more responsibility than the other bridesmaids. Responsibilities include:

• Host the bridal shower
• Helps bride to select her wedding apparel and accessories
• Helps bride coordinate wedding vendors and plans
• Supervises and organizes the other bridesmaids
for their wedding   apparel
• Attends all prenuptial parties
• Coordinates purchase of bridesmaids’ gift to bride
• Coordinates purchase of bridesmaids’ gift to couple
• Assists in wedding day plans and preparation
• Picks-up last minute items for bride
• Keeps bride on schedule and assists her throughout her wedding day
• Assists bride in dressing for the ceremony and last minute touch ups.
• Witnesses wedding license
• If there is no ring bearer, she will hold the groom’s ring until needed
• Holds the bridal bouquet during the ceremony
• Adjusts the bride’s veil and train before the processional and the     recessional

Bridesmaids

Bridesmaids are usually the bride’s closest friends and select family members.

Responsibilities include:
• Assists maid or matron of honor with her duties
• Attends all prenuptial parties
• Assists with bridal shower
• Assists the bride throughout the wedding planning process
• Assists the bride throughout her wedding day

Best Man
The best man is the groom’s closest friend.
He plays a very important role.
Responsibilities are varied but may include:• Coordinates and oversees all ushers’ activities and duties
• Coordinates all logistics (rental and fittings) for ushers’
wedding apparel
• Picks-up and returns all rented wedding apparel for the
ushers and the groom
• Organizes bachelor dinner or party
• Organizes purchase of groom’s gift from ushers
• Organizes purchase of couple’s gift from ushers
• Attends all prenuptial parties
• Helps with honeymoon travel plans
• Attends all prenuptial parties
• Helps groom to dress on his wedding day
• Drives groom to ceremony
• Witnesses marriage license signing
• Brings marriage license to ceremony
• On wedding day, pays any and all service providers as per groom’s     instructions (i.e. officiating authority, photographers, musicians, etc.)
• If there is no organized transportation, drives bride
and groom to reception
• Conducts “toast” to couple during reception
• If there is no ring bearer, holds bridal ring until needed
• Assists groom with changing his clothes after ceremony

Ushers
Ushers are usually the groom’s closest friends and select family members.
Responsibilities include:

• Seats guests at the ceremony
• Rolls and unrolls aisle carpet
• Assists best man with bachelor dinner or party
• At ceremony, provides guests with wedding programs and
maps to reception
• Head usher seats mother of the groom and bride at the reception
• Transports bridesmaids to reception

Flower Girl
• Carries basket with rose pedals, rice or confetti to be thrown before     bride’s path during processional (Flower girl may carry a bouquet     instead of the basket)
• Attends rehearsal dinner

Ring Bearer
Carries pillow with rings attached ( If young child, you may want to attach “mock” rings so that the actual rings do not get lost)
Attends rehearsal dinner

Bride’s Parents
• When engagement announced, notify groom and groom’s parents to     congratulate them
• Holds engagement party for bride and groom
• Prepares guest list for bride
If necessary, coordinates all lodging arrangements for brides’
out-of-town guests
• Provides bride and groom with special gift
• Provides groom with gift
• Serves as host and hostess of reception
• Mother helps bride choose her wedding gown
• Mother selects her own wedding apparel
• Mother helps bride to keep track of gifts received
• Mother is last person to be seated at ceremony
• Mother stores top layer of wedding cake for bridal couple while they     are on honeymoon
• Mother arranges for wedding gown to be dry cleaned and preserved
• Father coordinates his wedding apparel with other men
of the wedding party
• Father rides to ceremony with bride in limousine
• Father gives bride away at ceremony

Groom’s Parents
• When told of engagement, notify bride and bride’s parents
to congratulate them
• Hold tea or party to introduce bride to family and friends
• Prepare guest list for groom
If necessary, coordinate all lodging arrangements for
groom’s out-of-town guests
• Organize rehearsal dinner (This is one of the most important      responsibilities for the groom’s parents)
• Provides bride and groom with a special gift
Provide bride with a gift
• Mother coordinates wedding dress with bride’s mother
• Father gives “toast” to bride at rehearsal dinner
• Father coordinates wedding apparel with other men in wedding party

FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITIES

Bride and her Family

• Engagement photo
• Engagement party
All stationary including invitations, announcements, thank-you cards,     printing, etc.
• Bridal gown and related apparel
• Photographer and photographs
Videographer
• Bridal bouquets and reception and ceremony arrangements
• All decorations
• Ceremony music
• Reception music
• All ceremony expenses
• All reception expenses
• Wedding guest book
• Groom’s wedding ring
• Groom’s wedding gift
• Bridesmaids’ gifts
• Lodging for bridesmaids
• All transportation of bride, groom and wedding party to and from    wedding ceremony and reception
• Bridesmaids’ lunch and dinner
• Medical exam and blood tests

Groom and His Family
• Bride’s engagement ring
• Bride’s wedding ring
• Bride’s gift
• Marriage license
• Wedding apparel
• Gifts for ushers
• Fee for officiating authority
• Bride’s bouquet
• Bride’s going away corsage
• Boutonnieres
• Corsages
• Rehearsal dinner
• Honeymoon
• Ushers’ accessories
• Medical exam and blood tests

Maid/Matron of Honor and Bridesmaids
• Own wedding apparel and accessories
• Bridal shower
• Bride’s gift
• Couple’s gift

Best Man and Ushers
• Own wedding apparel (groom pays for accessories)
• Bachelor dinner or party
• Groom’s gift
• Couple’s gift

Simply Weddings Post for the Week of August 2, 2010

Sunday, August 1st, 2010

Clinton Wedding: Simply an Elegant Affair

Most women that dream of their fantasy wedding always remember falling in love the romantic Cinderella story, or perhaps they may ponder over Princess Diana’s wedding, which was an extravagant affair that included royalty, elected officials and celebrities. For the younger generation of brides most are looking after Celebrity Weddings and after this weekend many Brides will be looking into the details that were created by Chelsea Clinton for her wedding day. On Saturday Night a few guests will never forget the sight at a certain wedding in Rhinebeck, New York. A former president and the current secretary of state joyfully beaming as they were about to give their only daughter away.

The pending marriage of former first daughter Chelsea Clinton and investor Marc Mezvinsky has been billed as “America’s Wedding,” a blowout affair of the political and entertainment elite.

According to the press, this wedding is a lot more than that. It’s a confirmation of America’s shifting religious landscape.

“This is a state wedding that is claiming for all of us that things are changing,” says Rabbi Irwin Kula of the National Jewish Center for Learning and Leadership, referring to the increase in interfaith marriages. “It’s the public confirmation … the public reflection of a reality that already exists.”

Clinton was raised a Christian, and Mezvinsky is Jewish. Fifty years ago, this marriage would never have taken place. The pressure to remain faithful to one’s own kind was too great.

It’s a great time going on for the Clinton family as yesterday, their beloved and only daughter got hitched into the wedlock. This wedding was collecting highlights right from the start because Chelsea is not your ordinary girl; she is more a princess as being the daughter of ex- United States President Bill Clinton and the current State Secretary Hillary Clinton. The wedding began in a calm manner as the security was extremely strict which more transformed this wedding into the political one.

The photographs of the Clinton/ Mezvinsky marriage ceremony have been widely issued on the internet. In the photographs the couple seems very delighted as their long time love affair has finally renovated in to the marriage vows. The groom Marc Mezvinsky in his black formal dress and the bride in her beautiful wedding dress created by Vera Wang looked perfect and made in heaven with each other. Hilary and Bill Clinton looked very happy for their daughter’s big day.

Other permanent memories that took place would include: The bide, Chelsea Clinton, helping the minister remember the next line of verse when the breeze flipped his page over too soon. And then later, trading her silk strapless Vera Wang wedding gown for a slinkier little white number as she took the floor with her groom, Marc Mezvinsky, for a cutely choreographed dance to “At Last.”

The wedding party was formidable — a dozen bridesmaids and nearly as many groomsmen — and so too was security: Guests needed specially issued ID bracelets to board a bus to the ceremony. A few sharply dressed crashers who tried to blend in with the crowd were quickly escorted out. The party raged until 4:30 a.m.

There was a large attendance of 400 guests and it was said to be extremely lavish. Some say there was a seven-figured cost estimate to produce the event. It was said to be not over the top, and not crammed with celebrities but, more elite officials.

“It felt like a family wedding,” one guest said. “It didn’t feel like a big extravaganza.”

Efforts to keep the wedding underwrap may have failed, with leaks drawing hordes of journalists to the small Hudson River community this weekend — but even after the fact, the families kept a tight lid on most of the details.

On Saturday night, the Clinton’s released a statement expressing their happiness, along with five radiant photos of the bride in her white silk organza and tulle gown with a crystal-encrusted belt — three with her groom, one of the couple with her parents and one of her dad walking her down the aisle. But that was about it. Want to see more of Hillary’s plum-colored Oscar de la Renta dress? Sorry, absolutely no more pics. And none on Facebook: Guests had to hand over all cell phones and cameras.

The outdoor ceremony at Astor Courts was dignified but lighthearted.  Neither of the two celebrants — the Rev. William Shillady and Rabbi James Ponet — gave a formal sermon. Marc, 32  and Chelsea, 30 (who is now pursuing a PhD at NYU’s Wagner School of Public Service), laughed throughout, once when Chelsea seemingly dropped her groom’s ring. He broke a glass underfoot, in keeping with Jewish tradition, and they stood beneath an immense chuppah made of woven willow branches, white roses and hydrangeas.

The reception was held on the same property — not inside the Beaux-Arts mansion, but in a solid tentlike structure erected for the occasion. An 18-piece ensemble from New York (the orchestra of Jim Valli, a Clinton rep confirmed) performed big-band music. Bill Clinton, with an adoring look on his face, danced with his daughter to “The Way You Look Tonight.” Later the Clinton parents danced together, with no fanfare and little attention, looking as ecstatic as they did at the 1993 inauguration. And yes, they also did the hora, which put Bill and Hillary up in the chairs; up too went the grooms parents, ex-House members Ed Mezvinsky and Marjorie Margolies-Mezvinsky.

The dinner: Catered by the St. Regis Hotel in New York, it was “okay,” a guest said — short ribs, Atlantic char, a vegetarian option, and gluten-free rolls. The gluten-intolerant bride also selected a gluten-free cake from La Tulipe.

The flowers: roses and hydrangeas, all purpley-pinky-blue. It was a hue that corresponded with the attendants’ gowns, which we’re told were actually wedding gowns dyed a plummy color, after they couldn’t find a traditional bridesmaid-style gown they liked.

After the band wrapped up, guests moved to an after-party on the tennis courts, where a DJ played ’80s tunes and current Top-40 fare — you know, typical wedding stuff. Bill was on the dance floor; so was Hillary aide Huma Abedin with her new husband, Rep. Anthony Weiner.

Bill gave one of the toasts, of course, saying that ever since his daughter had been old enough to formulate a thought, he had “been outnumbered” in his household, two to one. Now, with a son-in-law, he said, “the playing field is even. I have someone else on my side.” The kind of welcome that any old dad might give, at any old wedding.

I am looking forward to reading more about this extravagant affair and I surely can’t wait to see all of the photos from this wedding. From reading about it, it sounds like it was a sophisticated and classy wedding celebration.

Photo’s and notes provided by: Google, YouTube, The Washington Post, and Political Review Journal

Simply Weddings Las Vegas Post for the week of July 26, 2010

Sunday, July 25th, 2010




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Uniting the discreet luxury, synonymous with Mandarin Oriental, and the warm, sincere service that comes with the Asian heritage, all of their weddings create memories to last a lifetime.

Mandarin Oriental can create a glitzed gala against the fabulous backdrop of The Strip, a private party in their VIP bar space 23 floors high above the city, a spa pedicure party in a luxury poolside cabana or a private dinner in their black and white Emperor Suite.

Guests at the Mandarin Oriental Las Vegas check in at the resort’s 23rd floor Sky Lobby. With an interior designed by Adam D. Tihany and spectacular views of the Las Vegas Strip, the lobby provides an amazing welcome to Vegas.

While hosting your wedding at the Mandarin Oriental Las Vegas, check out the French restaurant Twist by Chef Pierre Gagnaire. The restaurant is the Michelin-star chef’s first U.S. restaurant and serves classic French cuisine with a modern spin. Other restaurants include MOzen Bistro with authentic Asian dishes and multi-national fare and the Pool Café, where guest can dine out on Mandarin’s pool deck on the 8th floor.

In the evenings, check out the Mandarin Bar. Located just off the lobby on the 23rd floor, it offers lavish furniture, a VIP room and spectacular views of Vegas. During the day the Tea Lounge provides a scenic meeting place for a stimulating beverage. If you just want a quick bite or a cup of coffee, Amore Patisserie, is located directly on Las Vegas Boulevard – just opposite the valet entrance of Mandarin Oriental Las Vegas.

For the bride to be wanting to seek fine relaxation you will want to check out the resort’s 27,000-square-foot spa. It has 17 treatment rooms and a variety of unique treatments including a Chinese Foot Spa. Relaxation lounges at the spa have views of the Las Vegas Strip and there are steam rooms, a men’s sauna, hammam, experience shower, ice fountain and ladies’ Rhassoul. In addition to the spa, Mandarin Oriental Las Vegas has a fitness and wellness center, yoga studio, heated outdoor pools and a beauty salon that can cater to the modern bride.

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